You have to let it go. It’s not about prestige, money or an abundance of love. Any of these will knock you out of the boat as soon as you step foot in it. In order to truly get to where it is that you want to go, you have to focus on, as well as be indifferent to, the only thing that matters: state of mind. This of course means that methods and philosophy need to be tailored to each individual, and no general course can be established for humanity as a whole, but non the less, any person taking this course should be applauded in the most generous of manners. However, some people just feel the rain.